But I worked at it and learned by body and made mistakes, and now I can enjoy hours of marathon sex and go exercising the next day — no Preparation H required. It's no more messy than the lube is anyway. And yes, sometimes traces of fecal matter if you decide to have anal sex. Again, fiber will aid the healing process of both these common ailments that befall bottoms. However, when you see red, it is a sign that you have gone too rough or perhaps have not used enough lube, and it is time to stop. All are welcome to participate who agree to follow the rules outlined below and in:. But to answer your question, yes, my boyfriend and I always use a condom and we are monogomous.
I must stress that regardless what you choose to do, sharing needles and injecting any substance into your body is an extremely high-risk practice that invites Hepatitis, HIV, and other infections.
Depending on the environment — a dive bar versus a dance club, a bathhouse or a play party — I might be wearing more clothes or less, but the target is the same: However, you have a window of time to play in, so semi-spontaneous sex is possible. Sorry to mess up any fantasies you might have, but true spontaneous anal sex isn't possible in my experience unless you don't care about cleanliness. Not sure if its a problem or not, but lets call it a possibility and one more reason to always have safe sex. I would also add that, since the spinchter is itself a circular muscle that can be stretched and exercised like all other muscles in the body, certain ass-training toys like kegel balls, Ben Wa balls, and smooth butt plugs can be used to exercise your hole and make it better at opening and clenching.