I'm about to follow the NC rule for second time, hoping it will work. She continues her relationship, in hope that her level of intimacy with Garry will increase and the empty feeling inside her will slowly go away. I already know what their relationship is. Pick up some new hobbies, make new friends and go ahead with your life. It could very well be a rebound relationship as he doesn't want to personally deal with the emotions of losing you, and decides to take comfort in someone else. If you genuinely want her back, being strong headed might not be the best idea as it may push her further away instead, reminding her of the past. Is she in a rebound?
This new guy she has made a straight jump to is in all probability just a rebound relationship she has gotten herself into.
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We broke up while in Hawaii, and 2 months after that trip she changes all her profile pictures to her and a new guy kissing. And a few weeks ago she said no and she never actually gave me an answer today. Also, you'll have to do what's best for you and your kid, and I personally wouldn't recommend simply holding on for the sake of it. I felt she was slipping away, but did nothing about it. She wanted me to come but I was scared. Even if you get back together, it will be hard for you to trust her again. I think that if I go about it right, they might break up soon, that is if she has feelings for me.