It's a fantastic practice to pre-live the future and never re-live the past. If you commit to being with your spouse again, really commit and make the changes necessary, in yourselves and in your relationship, to keep the relationship going. It makes sense that it can be tempting to fall back into a relationship with your ex-husband. My advice is to block them both the second the status appears. Let yourself be courted. Stupid holiday, we can all agree, but still.
Once you have re-established a serious relationship, make a list of what went wrong in your marriage and discuss the list openly.
Tips To Get Over Your Ex Husband
After all, you cannot be moving your life forward when you are spending your time obsessing over how he is spending his. After all, it's not the relationship itself you want, it's how it will make you FEEL. You go through phases. Is it time to dust yourself off, get over your ex, and start moving beyond the whole divorce drama? Is it in your throat?